Thursday, April 2, 2009

I will never one, two, three, forget

I remember once, Justin told me he didn't understand why people would get upset when they'd assume someone is using them. And he said, he doesn't care if people use him. When I asked him to explain he said "Because, who ever is using me, is using me because in some way, I'm an advantage towards them." He said, "We're all using eachother for our own advantages." And that makes sense. "As long as I'm needed by them in some way, then I'm okay. And when we lose friends, it's because we ran out of things to give."

Despite what we call it, love, friendship, whatever, we're all just using each other. And that's not a bad thing. People use you for their benefits. Sometimes in good ways, sometimes in bad ways. You bring something into their life. They need you for some reason. And obviously, they give you advantages, otherwise you wouldn't keep them around.

He said, "I say it's okay to use me because, who doesn't want to be needed?"

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